The Psychology of Remodeling
There are many variables that go into remodeling. This is why some people take years to contemplate it and follow through or give up from being overwhelmed. Many people find remodeling a daunting task to take on and attach shame when they can’t make decisions or find a contractor they can trust. The good news is all of these feelings and thought processes are completely normal and part of the process. Let’s take a look at some of the misnomers and truths about remodeling.
YOU’VE THOUGHT ABOUT REMODELING FOR A YEAR OR YEARS. YOU HAVE THE BUDGET IN MIND, BUT CAN’T INITIATE THE ACTION.
This is the anxiety of change. Try to imagine how thrilled you will be with the finished project. Set goal for a finishing date that will allow you to host a graduation, anniversary, wedding, or family event. Sometimes imagery can spur action, and knowing an event is coming can lead to change. These events should be part of your initial conversation with your contractor. They should be a part of helping you with your goals and listening to what you are saying.
YOU CAN’T FACE ALL THE DETAILS.
The fear of making mistakes or choosing something for a final product strikesand is not a deal breaker. You should rely on your contractor to help you with these decisions. If they have a designer on board, even better. The designer can pull all facets of the remodel together based on what your preferences are. Remodeling contractors should be current in trends, up-to-date on resale potential, and use good judgment when guiding you through your preferences. If you are a DIY’er, calling a trusted friend or relative may give you to help and confidence you need to make some decisions
YOU ARE A NATURAL AT ALL THINGS DO- IT- YOURSELF.
Great! Being handy is a gift and can lead to great satisfaction when the job is done. The problem is you work 60 hours a week, have a family or obligations, and have very little time for much else. The thought of paying someone to do what you know you can do creates inner conflict and the project stays in limbo. Give yourself permission to let go and let the professionals handle your project. You can still be very involved with every aspect, but you can come home and see progress! Once you’ve jumped the hurdle to let a contractor handle the details, it will be such a relief!
THE THOUGHT OF YOUR HOUSE BEING IN UPHEAVAL MAKES YOU SHUDDER.
Your home is your sanctuary, and feeling intruded upon can cause anxiety and vulnerability. Even if you’re doing your own updating, ripping up an area and changing living patterns can be stressful. The key here is having a game plan and managing expectations. Talk to your contractor about what’s going to happen. You should be informed as to what will be unavailable when, (i.e. an electrical appliance, sinks, toilets, tubs,etc.) The more you know, the less stress you will feel. Another great stress reliever is to move into a different area of the house or set up a mini kitchen prep area. All these things will create some normality during a big change.
YOU WANT TO USE A CONTRACTOR BUT DON’T KNOW HOW TO FIND ONE WHO SUITS YOU.
As with any professional doctor, lawyer, or insurance be insured, transparent with any information asked, and respectful of your concerns. They should provide references and be willing to let you see their work. If all of these aspects seem to be in place, ask yourself, how you feel when talking with them. You need to feel comfortable and trustful for an undertaking in your home. Gaining trust is a huge part of the remodeling process. You need to feel comfortable in asking questions, making changes, or if something is wrong, voicing your concern.
YOU AREN’T SURE WHAT A REMODEL COSTS AND ARE AFRAID OF BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.
The fear of coast can cause a project to be abandoned. There are many different levels of remodeling quality out there. The first thing to do is look up the remodeler’s coast quotient in the Cost vs. Value Report. It will show you the national range of all things remodeling by credible remodeler’s. While every job is different, there are usually some common variables that allow a gauge for pricing. The important thing to remember is to protect yourself with a reputable company. The price of remodel will reflect the liability insurance, workers comp, and other protective measures. The old adage is true: if it sounds too good to be true it probably is. A good remodeler wants to protect you, your property, and him/herself as well. Your money will be well spent if the experience is a success.
Remodeling can be a great transformation of your home and lifestyle. There can be great satisfaction in creating functionality and updating your look. Psychologically, a new fresh appearance of your home will elicit feelings of happiness, confidence, and a renewed sense of wellbeing.
